#SELFIESAFETY

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A search for the word ‘selfie’ on Instagram returns over 217 million results! A selfie is defined as ‘a photograph that one has taken of oneself, typically on a smartphone, with the intention or sharing on social media.’ Unfortunately, the pursuit of the perfect ‘selfie’ has become somewhat of an obsession that has resulted in people placing themselves and others in great danger. There has been an increasing number of cases over recent years where individuals have ultimately lost their lives attempting to take selfies in unsafe location and situations. Here are our top ten tips for staying safe while you selfie!

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Make sure you have a chat with your child today about how they can #selfie SAFELY! For more information on how to keep your child safe online be sure to visit The Cyber Safety Guru!

TOP TEN TIPS IF YOUR CHILD HAS INSTAGRAM

If your child does have an Instagram account and you are concerned about their safety, but don’t want to force your child to deactivate their account, there are many ways that you can still protect them online. As we have mentioned earlier there is an increasingly notable pressure for children to have social media accounts and to be actively posting on them. Many children feel they will be isolated or will ‘miss out’ on something if they do not have social media accounts. Here are our top 10 tips on how to keep your child safe on Instagram:

  1. LAY DOWN THE LAW

Remind your child that social media use is a privilege that will be revoked if you deem their conduct online to be unsafe or unacceptable. Set guidelines for your child to follow when using social media such as don’t talk to strangers, only interact with people you know in real life, do not use social media in private or for prolonged periods of time, don’t give out personal information etc. It is important however to ensure your child feels comfortable to tell you if something goes wrong online. Many children withhold information about things troubling them online out of fear their parents will revoke their internet privileges, remind your child it is important they tell you if something or someone is bothering them on Instagram.

  1. MONITOR WHO THEY ARE FOLLOWING AND WHO IS FOLLOWING THEM

Children feel pressured to have a large number of followers on Instagram, which often results in them accepting follow requests from people who they do not know. Go through the lists of followers and following on your child’s Instagram page and ask your child how they know each person.

  1. CHECK DIRECT MESSAGES

Make sure you know who your child is speaking to on Instagram Direct Messenger, as it is possible for ANY Instagram user to contact them find out more here.

  1. CHECK RECENTLY LIKED

This provides a good insight into who your child is engaging with on social media, simply follow these steps on the images below. You have to be LOGGED IN to your child’s Instagram account to access this.

Access setting by clicking the wheel icon on the top right hand corner.

Access setting by clicking the wheel icon on the top right hand corner.

Click 'Posts You've Liked'- third option under ACCOUNT heading.

Click ‘Posts You’ve Liked’- third option under ACCOUNT heading.

You will then be able to see all the posts recently liked by your child.

You will then be able to see all the posts recently liked by your child.

5.CHECK POPULARS PAGE

This is a great way to see who is in your child’s network on Instagram. Photos that feature on the popular page are determined by an algorithm that includes photos from users who your child follows, photos from users who are following your child, photos that are popular in the country you are accessing Instagram from, photos that have been liked or commented on by people who follow your child or who your child is following. If you don’t like a certain image featured on your child’s popular page, click the image, go to that person’s profile and BLOCK them.

Click the magnifying glass on the bottom left to access the populars page.

Click the magnifying glass on the bottom left to access the populars page.

  1. SET ACCOUNT TO PRIVATE

Make sure your child’s account is set to private, everything you need to know about Instagram privacy settings can be found here.

  1. VIEW THEIR POSTS

Go on to your child’s profile and check the images they have been posting. Ensure they do not give away to much information about your child’s life such as school uniforms, sporting club uniforms, photos geographically tagged to certain locations etc.

  1. CHECK LIKES AND COMMENTS ON THEIR PICTURES

Check the users who have liked photos your child has put on Instagram. Do you know them? Does your child know them? Also check who is leaving comments on your child’s posts.

  1. CHECK INFORMATION IN BIO

Everything you need to know about protecting your child’s Instagram bio information can be found here. This is accessible to ANY Instagram user so ensure it does not provide detailed information about your child such as age, postcode, school etc.

  1. MONITOR REGULARLY

Ensure you make a habit of regularly checking up on your child’s Instagram account. Recently a father from WA was left devastated after discovering his daughter was being targeted by a predator on social media!

OFFICIAL INSTAGRAM ADVERTISING

Yesterday we posted about sponsored posts on Instagram and identified ways advertisers deceptively promote their products to your child on Instagram, today we are looking at the more overt form of advertising on Instagram. In June this year Instagram rolled out its paid advertising service. This service allows businesses to pay Instagram for their content to feature in the newsfeeds of Instagram users. Vivid Sydney, Kathmandu and Crown Resorts were some of the first organisations to sign up to the service. Any company with sufficient funds has the ability to advertise on Instagram, therefore there is a whole range of advertisements your child is exposed to. Brands such as Smirnoff and McDonalds have both advertised on Instagram in the past.

Whilst scrolling though my newsfeed this morning I came across this advertisement:

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As you can see, this is an advertisement for a photoshopping app, where the company have paid Instagram to feature their post in the newsfeeds or Instagram users. The advertisement could easily appear in your child’s newsfeed as well. The ad encourages users to download the app so that they will be able to alter and Photoshop their images before publishing then on Instagram. What are your thoughts on an advertisement like this appearing on your child’s newsfeed?

10 Accounts your child should NOT be following!

Have you ever taken a look at some of the accounts your child follows on Instagram? You should! There are very limited regulations about what is allowed to be posted on Instagram, and many celebrities and brands are notorious for pushing the boundaries, publishing photos that are overly sexualised or inappropriate for a younger audience. Most of these celebrities/brands, as well as Instagram itself, justify the publication of this content due to the fact that Instagram is only for users of the age of 13, however this is quite often not the case, with repeated surveys finding children as young as SEVEN with Instagram accounts. Take a look at some of these accounts that are popular with tweens, and find out how easily your child is exposed to explicit content on Instagram.

Kim Kardashian-West- TV Personality: 49 million followers

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Candice Swanepoel- Victoria’s Secret Model: 6.2 million followers

Cara Delevingne- Model/Actress: 21 million followers

Ariana Grande- Singer/Actress: 45 million followers

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Rich Kids of Instagram: 179k followers

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ROXY- Clothing Brand: 1 million followers 

Victoria’s Secret- Lingerie Brand: 24 million followers

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Miley Cyrus- Singer/Actress: 30 million followers

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Justin Bieber- Singer: 41 million followers

Kylie Jenner- TV Personality: 39 million followers

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Children, Social Media and Mental Health

We know that there are many different threats your child is exposed to when using Instagram, including cyberbullying and exposure to predators. But have you ever thought of the psychological risks involved when young people use Instagram?

A recent American study, which analysed over 150,000 social media posts made by 200 children over two years, has provided a worrying insight into the mental wellbeing of children using social media. Here is just a brief look at some of the worrying excerpts taken from interviews with 13 year olds who use social media:

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Many children reported a HIGH DEPENDANCY on social media, checking their newsfeeds up to ONE HUNDRED TIMES A DAY! Participants also reported feelings of ANXIETY when they are not on social media, some causes of this anxiety included:

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Instagram users carefully select photos they wish to post, and then edit, filter and Photoshop these images, eventually posting them at a strategic time when they believe most followers will be online, therefore increasing their potential to receive likes and comments. The curated images featured on an individual’s Instagram page provide a very inaccurate reflection of their real life, in the words of British Supermodel Alexa Chung, who has over 1.9 million Instagram followers, ‘nobody is as happy as they look on Instagram.’

Alexa Chung believes nobody is as happy as they appear on Instagram.

Viewing filtered, curated, and strategically posted images of peers, as well as posts about friends hanging out without them, can leave children feeling like their peers live better lives than them, and that they are not attractive or popular enough to be included. Social media leaves children vulnerable to feeling anxious, lonely, and socially isolated. Nearly 50% of research participants reported that they feel excluded when they see posts of friends hanging out without them online. Even more disturbing than this, is the fact that ONE THIRD of research participants reported that they had made posts on social media that would have made other users feel excluded!

Research revealed the great emphasis that children place on the number of followers they have on social media, and how many likes and comments that they get on their posts. Children use these numbers as a form of barometer of measuring popularity, and determining their social network status. Of the 200 children who participated in this survey, 80% believed that you could tell how popular a person was by looking at their social networks. Children using Instagram appear fixated on the number of followers and likes they receive, and it is not uncommon for children as young as TEN to have an excess of 300 followers.

Worryingly, this research showed that the ranking of social media status is often a case of rich becoming richer and poor becoming poorer. Children who were popular amongst peers at school reported the highest number of followers, likes and comments. Children who were not quite as popular reported less followers, likes and comments, these children also reported feelings of depression, anxiety and poor self-esteem.

Whilst active supervision is the key to preventing majority of risks posed to your child on Instagram, there is also a need to acknowledge the less obvious ways in which Instagram can impact your child’s development and wellbeing. The younger the Instagram user, the more likely they are to be caught up in the ‘social ranking’ aspect of Instagram, which is proven to have serious impacts on a child’s self esteem and wellbeing. It is time to rethink attitudes towards young children on Instagram!

INTRODUCING THE OFFICE OF THE CHILDREN’S eSAFETY COMMISSIONER

The Office of the eSafety Commissioner was recently established by the Australian Government, and has now been operating for six months. The commissioner aims to create a safe environment for Australian children online.

On top of providing accurate and up to date information about all things cybersafety, the Office has also established a comprehensive complaints system that aims to help children who are experiencing cyberbullying or harassment online. If your child is experiencing such difficulties online, the Office of the eSafety commissioner is an invaluable resource, but unfortunately it is not well known by most parents. Here is Australia’s first eSafety Commissioner, Alastair MacGibbon, discussing the vision and aims of the office.

As mentioned in the video, the office has established a cyberbullying complaints system. This system, which is backed by legislation, aims to remove offensive material within 12 hours. Participants in the program are notified of offensive material present on their sites by the commissioner, and are asked to have the content removed within 12 hours or face further action. An extensive number of social media services, including Ask.fm, Flickr, Twitter, Yahoo!7 Answers, Facebook, Google+, Instagram and YouTube, are all participants in the program.

In the first six months of operation, the office has made tremendous progress in dealing with cyberbullying, having resolved over 40 complaints about serious cyberbullying, completed over 2000 investigations into illegal online content, and referred over 600 children to the Kids Helpline.

So, how can the office of the eSafety commissioner help you? One in five Australian children experience cyberbullying each year, this can have a dramatic impact on their safety and wellbeing, and the office of the eSafety commissioner is here to help protect your child. If your child is under the age of 18, and is being bullied online, you can lodge a complaint to the Office of the Children’s eSafety Commissioner. The following video provides you with more information about what to do before you lodge your complaint, and how your complaint will be dealt with.

Hidden Dangers of The Instagram Bio

What seems like a few innocent lines is actually one of the most underestimated threats to your child’s online safety. The humble ‘Instagram Bio’ is a major threat to privacy and cybersafety, as it remains public regardless of your privacy settings. Whether your account is private or public some elements of your child’s Instagram page remain available to ALL users, this includes

  • Name
  • Bio
  • Profile picture
  • Number of followers and number of people following (names of people your child follows or is followed by are NOT accessible to other users if their profile is set to private.)

Australian police are making an increasing number of arrests of predators who have been caught grooming or attempting to groom children on social media services, including Instagram. It is important to remain diligent in supervision and not to underestimate the risks children can be exposed to on social media.

If your child’s Instagram account is set to private, here is how it would look to an online predator:

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When an account is private, followers and following lists are not accessible, however direct messaging is still possible!

If your child’s Instagram account is set to public, here is how it would look to an online predator:

 

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Predators would simply need to click followers or following to gain access to a list of every user that follows or is followed by your child. Even if your child’s account is set to PRIVATE, their page can still be easily found if any of their friends have PUBLIC profiles.

Obviously the best way to protect your child’s safety is to not allow them to create an Instagram account, however, if you wish to allow your child to create an Instagram account, there are ways to reduce the risks. Generally, young people like to include some information about themselves in their bio, and whilst it might initially seem harmless, especially to a child, it does not take long for an online predator to piece together little snippets of information to create a bigger picture. Some examples of information commonly placed in the bio’s of young people include:

  • Full name
  • Birth date/ year
  • Age
  • School
  • Names of friends
  • Post codes or suburbs
  • Sporting clubs or dance groups etc
  • Links to other social media accounts such as Kik, Snapchat and Skype

REMEMBER! Online predators are becoming increasingly technologically advanced, and innocent information unwittingly placed in an Instagram bio can lead to identification. Here is in example of how easily information about your child can fall into the WRONG hands!

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6 REASONS WHY YOUR CHILD SHOULD NOT BE USING INSTAGRAM

1. AGE:

The minimum age required to sign up for an Instagram account is 13 years old, however, there have been cases where children as young as 11 years old have been groomed on Instagram. Despite the minimum age requirement for an Instagram account being 13, this does not mean it is necessarily the recommended or appropriate age for children to make an account. The Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act is a piece of American legislation that prevents companies from collecting information from children under 13. Social media companies set their minimum age requirement at 13 in order to comply with the legislation, not because it is safe or appropriate for children to use their social media service at the age of 13.

2. FOLLOWERS:

Any user with an Instagram account has the ability to follow, or request to follow, your child on Instagram. Instagram profiles display how many people the user is following, and how many people are following them. There is an enormous pressure on children to gain large amounts of followers. According to Cyber Safety expert, and former police officer, Susan McLean, over 90% of children who use Instagram do not have their account set to private because they want to be seen as popular and having lots of followers.

3. CONTENT:

Instagram provides children with direct access to inappropriate content. Each Instagram user has access to an ‘activity’ page, which displays content that has been liked or commented on by people who they follow. Users also have access to a ‘popular’ page, which displays content that has been interacted with by their followers or people who they are following, as well as assorted content from other users who have NO DIRECT LINK to your child. This means that children are often exposed to inappropriate content when they are not even specifically looking for it. In 2013 ONE IN FIVE children aged between 8-13 years old reported having seen something on the Internet that bothered them. 

4. PEER PRESSURE:

Many psychologists and cyber experts have expressed concerns about the pressure that is placed on children when they use social media services. Clinical psychologist Louise Adams says children’s online activity is closely linked with their levels of self-esteem and sense of self worth.

Research has found that 35% of children under the age of 18 are worried about being tagged in unattractive photos on social media. 27% feel stressed about how they look in images online. 22% feel down when their photos do not receive a lot of likes. Another study found that 11% of Australian children aged 8-13 Photoshop their pictures before posting them online.

5. DIRECT MESSAGING:

Any user with an Instagram account has the ability to direct message your child on Instagram. Although your child can block and report users who send them inappropriate content on Instagram, it is important to note most predators on Instagram use MULTIPLE ACOCUNTS to access a greater number of children. You can read more here about Instagram Direct Messager.

6. SOCIAL EXCLUSION AND BULLYING:

Unfortunately, Instagram provides yet another platform for children to bully and harass one another. In 2014, 81% of children aged between 8-16 years reported that they had witness cyberbullying of others online. 39% of children reported that they themselves had been cyberbullied, whilst 15% admitted to bullying others online. Instagram also provides a platform for children to make others feel excluded and left out. Children can feel isolated and excluded when they see photos of other friends hanging out without them on Instagram.

Lifting the lid on ‘sponsored posts’

When your child is exposed to advertisements, whether they be form TV, radio, film or print media, they are viewing content that has been regulated by government and industry standards to ensure the advertisements are not misleading, deceptive or inappropriate for younger audiences. Unfortunately there are no such regulations for ‘sponsored posts’ that appear on Instagram, and tis can be very deceptive to young and impressionable Instagram users.

WHAT IS A SPONSORED POST?

Sponsored posts are an Instagram equivalent to ‘product placement.’ Brands search Instagram for users who have a substantial amount of followers/likes/comments, and then arrange to pay the user to post an Instagram photo featuring their product. The more followers an Instagram user has, the more money they stand to make from sponsored posts.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH SPONSORED POSTS?

Sponsored posts are a form of paid advertising, however, they are not regulated or monitored, in most cases sponsored content is not even declared, therefore you or your child are viewing paid advertising without even knowing.

There is a rise of young ‘Insta-celebs,’ who are building successful and popular brands for themselves on their personal Instagram page. These accounts are typically run by thin, attractive, tanned girls who post pictures of themselves at idyllic locations, eating healthy food, posing in activewear and modelling shots. Whilst there is much to be said about the psychological impact viewing these highly curated, edited and picture perfect accounts has on your child’s sense of wellbeing and self esteem, the focus here is on how these women (and sometimes men) make a substantial profit from deceptively promoting products to young girls who want to be just like them.

With some media experts claiming brands are forking out over ONE BILLION dollars a year for sponsored posts, it’s time to have a think about who is deceptively advertising to your child on Instagram! Here are some examples of sponsored posts made on popular Instagram pages:

SHINING A LIGHT ON CHILDREN AND SOCIAL MEDIA

Every year software company Intel Security release a research paper titled Teens, Tweens and Technology. The Research aims to examine the behaviour and opinions of young Australians and their parents regarding the use of technology and the Internet, with a main focus on social media usage, safety, and cyberbullying.

Intel Security conducted 1000 interviews, 500 with Australian parents of children aged 8-16, and 500 with children aged 8-16. The research splits young Australians into two separate groups:

  • Tweens: 8-12 year olds
  • Teens: 13-16 year olds

The survey found some very worrying statistics regarding the ways in which young children are engaging with social media services and other technologies

41% of 8-16 years olds are spending more than 2 hours per day in front of a mobile device

46% of parents are more worried about online behaviour due to the use of mobile devices

39% of children aged between 8-12 are active on social media, despite the minimum required age for signing up to most social media services being 13

36% of boys and 64% of girls aged between 8-12 reported having an account on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram

Parents are becoming increasingly worried about their child’s digital reputation, with 50% of parents reporting they worry about how their child’s digital reputation may influence their education and employment prospects in the future. Most parents also agree that the need for education is becoming increasingly important, with 83% stating education is required to teach children how to manage their digital reputation and personal information on the Internet.

The research also found that children are still hiding their online activity form their parents and are continuing to take risks online. One in three children aged between 8-12 hide their online activity form their parents using the following methods:

34% change their online behaviour when in the presence of their parents

16% delete their messages to prevent their parents form viewing them

16% clear their browser history so their parents cannot track their online behaviour

11% use a mobile device instead of a laptop or desktop as it makes it harder for their parents to monitor their behaviour

Children are continuing to post personal content on social media, despite 62% of children believing that the worst thing that can happen to them online is other people finding out their whereabouts or personal information.

39% of children have posted the name of their school

25% have posted their email address

17% have posted their full birth date

Australian children continue to indicate a willingness to participate in risk taking activities using social media, with 11% of children saying that they would meet, or have met someone in person who they first met online. Surveyed children revealed a willingness to use social media to deceive authority figures such as parents and teachers, a worrying trend as issues such as cyberbullying become increasingly problematic for young Australians.

38% of children have a social media account using a fake name or alias, the two main motivations behind this are as follows

51% want to hide their identity from friends and classmates when posting comments

31% want to hide inappropriate content from their parents and school staff

There are many ways that parents can limit the risk posed to their child on social media, the two most important factors are supervision and an understanding of the social media services they are using. Make sure you are actively monitoring your child’s Instagram account, check who they are following and who is following them. Check their Instagram Direct feed  and monitor who is getting in contact with them. It does not take long for children to stumble across something inappropriate on Instagram ensure you are actively supervising your child when they are on Instagram, and do not let them have access to their mobile devices alone in their bedroom, particularly at night. Communicate openly with your child about what they are seeing on Instagram, remind them it is important to tell an adult if they see something on Instagram that offends them or worries them. Establish ground rules outlining when your child is allowed to use Instagram, how long they are allowed to use it for, and your expectations regarding their behaviour on social media. Paedophile’s and predators can strike at any time, a young child with a social media account is a full time job for a parent.